Originally published in Wildcat Weekly on March 28, 2025
I used to buy a lot of Blu-rays. Streaming rendered my movie shelves somewhat obsolete, but I still purchase Blu-rays for certain films when they meet specific criteria. One such criterion is whether I get so engrossed in the movie that I lose track of my surroundings.
It suffices to say: I own Decision to Leave on Blu-Ray.
Describing even the genre of Decision to Leave challenges me. One website called it a “neo-noir romantic thriller”; another labeled it a “Hitcockian drama”. Both are probably right, but neither nails this haunting, twist-filled tale of crime, infatuation, and obligation.
Hae-joon (Park Hae-il) is a severe police captain investigating a governmental official who died on a mountain, but he’s immediately smitten with Seo-rae (Tang Wei), the deceased’s wife. Sweeping the optics of falling for a recently widowed woman aside—a big ask already—there’s a bigger problem: Hae-joon’s married, and Seo-rae is the chief suspect in what he suspects was a murder.
What ensues is a cat-and-mouse game between the two…except the cat’s obsessed with the mouse, and the mouse knows it. Huge questions fly freely—about Seo-Rae’s motives and origins, about Hae-moon’s insomnia and loyalties—and all the time, these two draw closer, pulled together by something that neither can enunciate but both feel potently.
I’ve watched Decision to Leave three times, and I gasp and tear up at the same spots on every viewing. Park Chan-wook’s film offers the juiciest of dramas, rich with misdirection and revelation, but also a ribbon of tragedy that coats the whole thing in a vivid blue-gray. The camerawork fascinates me, with surveillancy zooms that ratchet up the tension sprinkled between sharp, stylish pans, every decision made to heighten the edgy paranoia floating beneath the fatalistic will-they-or-won’t-they surface. It’s a film where you understand everything that happened but sit stunned through the credits, puzzling the thing out nonetheless. I’m never on any character’s side during this movie nor contemplating any sort of theme—I’m tangled in the same web as our characters, munching popcorn while they eye one another both warily and seductively.
Decision to Leave is catnip for Hitchcock fans with modern palates, but it also rocks for police procedural aficionados who like it when one delivers something a little deeper. Personally, I relish the meticulously crafted suspense that grips me on even a rewatch, leaving me spellbound by the gorgeous dancing trainwreck playing out on screen.
Decision to Leave streams for free on MUBI, but you can rent it on all the major platforms.